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购物车 Is Dad being Naughty?

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发表于 2023-1-13 08:55:43 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
The family went for a long walk. The little girl complained about sore feet and asked for being carried.
一家人饭后散步。小女孩抱怨脚痛,要背要抱。


They noticed a trolly on the roadside, and she suggested to use it. Dad agreed. They are simply on the way towards the shoppingmall, hence they can send the trolly back to its collection bay.
他们发现路边有乱放的购物车。小女孩要爸爸用购物车推她回去。因为他们回家的路刚好要经过商场,可以顺路把购物车送回去,爸爸同意了。


When they catched up with other families, younger son said: Naughty dad!
当他们赶上其他家人的时候,小哥哥责备爸爸说:爸爸淘气,不当使用购物车。


No suprise, Dad told the son: Hey, we are sending this trolly back to the collection bay, do you really think that is naughty?
爸爸早有预料。他对儿子说:我们要把这购物车送回商场。那还是淘气吗?


(Dad had been through the thought struggle: should using the trolly? How the passengers perceive our behavior? Is it a good example for kids? ... etc.)
(爸爸已经经历了一小段的思想斗争:该不该使用这个给购物车?那会给孩子们留下正面还是负面的印象?众多路上的司机和行人怎么看我们的行为?把购物车送回去并利用它来推小女儿的初心,是让爸爸心安的因素。)


Luckily, the younger son shared his feelings when he saw what Dad and his sister were doing. That gave Dad a good chance to explain: What was the motivation and what will the outcome of action taken. We are helping trolly back home!
接小儿子的责备,爸爸顺势解释了他们的这个行为:起心动念,和送购物车回去并帮助妹妹的行为效果。


Mum took the moment telling younger son something about judgement. Guess it is related to the saying of don't judge a book from its cover?
妈妈当时跟小儿子说了一些关于评判的是话。大概跟“不要从封面判断一本书”相关的吧?


The trolly was happy home and the family continue walking back their home too. At a road intersection, while waithing for the traffic light, Mum pointing to another trolly and asked: Why you leave the trolly here?
购物车给送回了家。一家人继续在回家的路上。在一个十字路口,等绿灯的时候,妈妈指着路灯下的一辆购物车问:你们怎么把购物车放在这里?


Dad understood that Mum was focusing on the conversation between older daught and herself, that is the reason she didn't noticed that he has already put that trolly back to the collection bay. However, he would like to leave some food of thought to all of them who would like to digest, so he whispered to the boys asking them to let Mum know this trolly was left there by someone else.
爸爸理解妈妈过于专注在跟大女儿的交流,没有注意到他们已经把那辆购物车送回回收点了。他想乘这个机会给大家一个思考进步的机会,于是,他小声跟男孩们说:去告诉妈妈这辆购物车是别人留在这里的。


The boys raised their voice and said: Dad had put back the trolly already!
两兄弟大声告诉妈妈:爸爸已经把那辆购物车送回去了。这是别人放这里的!

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